Chaos and the Art of Love
I cannot count the number of times that people have told me to not think so much to simplify my life when I felt stressed when life was seemingly out of hand. What most fail to realize is that it is not about simplification. Life is about discipline. Life can be as complicated as a person can make it so long as there is order within it, Balance.
Chaos is simplistic in its randomness but unproductive on a whole. Most often I have found the will or notion is simple the action complex. The will to love is simple, easy in the notion the thought of it. Either it exists in us or it does not. The capacity and the action however, requires more than just thought and words, the randomness. The art of loving, this system constantly moving toward a state of increasing entroy, requires order, purposefulness, and attentiveness. The mind is the catalyst the lock and key to keep the reaction moving forward.
When it comes to dealing with others, we cannot force love to happens either the intent is there or not.
The questions remains is the person worth the patience?
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