Making Curious Space For Love
It might take a more comprehensive review
to explain why I thought it would make sense
to read
The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook for Anger:
Using DBT Mindfulness
and Emotion Regulation Skills to Manage Anger
(Chapman and Gratz)
AND
Evolutionary Enlightenment:
A New Path to Spiritual Awakening
(A. Cohen)
at the same time,
in dialogue with each other.
But, in short,
Cohen is about optimizing healthy love and happiness,
joy and peace,
while Anger Management is all about minimizing the negative emotions:
blaming anger,
shaming fear,
snarky envy,
rabid hate
ignorant cynicism,
chronically impatient stress,
etc.
How to emerge resilient passion
for healthy life
as lust for love
is also about how to reinvest
disempowering anger-fear-hateful
lack of restoring
resonant win/win
mind/body wealth.
I wonder,
as I hear this Love Evolution Story
and read the Anger Devolution Therapy Narrative,
not explicitly addressing each other
as naked
and vulnerable
re-membering dipolar co-relationship
developing peak/valley co-empathic memories
rooted in YangBody/YintegralMind
curious co-engagement
As felt by mind/body
passion/pleasure
personal/political
enlightening/empowering
neuro/eco-systemic
mindfully sung/deeply danced
co-elationally crown/root chakra,
monotheistic/panentheistic
co-infested peak experiences
Unlike looking only at the front end of the proverbial elephant
to fully comprehend "love-elephant",
while dialectical therapy could focus more remedially
at both holistic
co-arising ends
of this organic
sexsensual
paternal/maternal
SunLightened/EarthPowered
Yang/Yintegral
compassion elephant.
If so, how can we become fully dialectical,
much more ego/ecotherapeutically optimizing?
iia
Dialogos/mythos
dipolar and bipolar
appositional and oppositional
Win/Win and Win/Lose copassioning
co-relationship
within BodySpace/MindTime
neurosystem-developmental
health/wealth optimizing
neuro/eco-dynamics.
If a planet of perfect
pole/hole
convex/concave
forward liberating/backward conserving love
is wellness-governed,
full-dialectically Me/We-comprehensive
Curiosity
explicityly co-balancing
and moderating irritational win/lose negative
and elational win/win positive
Yintegral eco-emotions and Yangful ego-cognitions
If anger is cathected to our individual and collective past,
as projected time cathects to future fear,
we meet this full-octaved elephant
of grateful and fore-given bodhisattva love
within a balancing bicamerally resonant body/mind's
positive sexy lateral pole/sensory bilateral hole
CoPresent
space/time's sacred EarthTribe peaceful
resilient
health/wealth copassion
pleasure presence.
The elephant's rear view teaches
what the front view
merely preaches
We love our nutrition-rich
hungry co-empathic receptors,
our trunk smelling and eye opening,
mouths and noses
and resonant/dissonant ears
Leading our holonic creation story's mind/body
toward comprehensively discerning
our best nutritional fields and meals and vocations,
therapeutically heading toward a healthier love future,
avoiding fore-knowable anger
predicting fear of future trauma threats.
Which is front and which is back,
which is cause and which is effect
isn't necessarily the same question
if we mind/body know/feel
these two are one nondual co-arising
love-purposed sex/sensory
pole/hole
foreYang/aftYintegral elephant.
We deeply matter,
whether we are Defensive Body/Mind dominant deductive,
Win v Lose 0-sum conservatively competitive
Anthro-Monotheistic v Earth-Panentheistic
Messiah v Bodhisattva chronically stressed
or
Liberated Mind/Body co-passion prominent inductive,
WinMe/WinWe Non(0)-co-invested
economically enlightened minds
with politically empowering bodies,
peak experiencing happy/healthy resilience,
peaceful resonant grace
and pleasant regenerative beauty,
healthy Crown life
and wealthy RootSystemic love
Both hemispheres,
deeply long to make resonant love,
and not more angry
fearful cognitive-affective
deadly win v lose chronic
systemic trauma dissonant
discommunication.
Either way, LeftMindNature or RightBodySpirit dominant,
or vacillating back and forth from fighting moments
to flighty moments,
or public secular day
against private sacred nights,
it appears that Bicameral Mind/Bodies
prefer nondual consciousness
about fore/aft balance
as an EarthTribe sacred species.
We start out Right Body/Mind dominant
and non-languaged.
In the middle of our co-individuation story
we emerge more or less bicamerally curious intelligence
as MidWay wu wei CoOperatively enlightened
empowering Positive/Not-Negative CoInvestors
Some complex mix of crowning holistic Love,
transforming root-systemic polarizing Anger and Fear.
In love-life maturing age
approaching less competitive cognitive/affective dissonance,
while catching up on lack of sacred sleep.
Here, on this cusp of remembering BiCameral CoIntelligence,
Business As Competitively Usual Elders and Cultures,
with dominant "Don't Lose to Losers" enculturation
and Ego investment,
may well move into a terminal climatic stage
of increasing fears about Ego's lack of sufficient time
due to the increasingly high risk of disease and death.
Yet, this climatic crisis
in our Interior Landscapes
may remind us of larger ecological climatic crises
and ego-light v eco-power revolutions
Contentioning wealthy incoming content
hoping for contenting healthy outgoing outcomes
of passionate space and peak pleasure times
Still-evolving PresentPresence co-creation
HereNow epic elephantine stories
communing back to Yang BodyStrength
equals
Yintegrity's light/dark dialectic MindFlow
Rich compost for future Evolving Time's
reegenerating
PolyCultural Anger/Fear rebalancing
MindLove/BodyLife Story ReMix
of PolyPathic-PolyVagal
CoArising His/Her
Elephant ComPassion/CoPleasure
Peak/Valley
His/HerStory
of regeneratively resilient
sacred EarthTribe
peak ego/eco
crown/root ecstatically resonant
resilient communion experience.
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