Love Poem: Rebirth

Rebirth

You told me to remain the same. 
That I was perfect , I didn't need to change. 
But that couldn't possibly be true, otherwise you wouldn't have left? 
You wouldn't have been able to find anyone to replace me, if I was perfect then you had already  found the best? 
I mean with you I was always hopeful, endearing and considerate. 
For you I actually tried to be just that, perfect. 
It's my biggest regret. 
I allowed you to put me in a box, you defined me. 
From how I wore my hair to how I should speak. 
You killed my creativity, my youthfulness, my spontaneity. 
And it's ironic, I allowed those things because I saw you the same way, a perfect person, knowing  no such beast exist,  but to me you were as close to perfect as perfect could get. 
So I let...you kill me, I let you will me and mold me and recreate me, in hopes of being everything you could ever dream. 
My soul died with you, you had the matches 
But I struck the box that created the flame
And you watched as everything I was burned to ashes. 
You said I was perfect and still you tried to change me. 
You left me in ashes and I had to gather all of what I could see. 
You forced a rebirth in me , to rise again like a Phoenix
Because you can not fix this 
I can not fix this
Fire creates rebirth. 
A new start. 
A new beginning.