LOVE SMART PLAY NICE OVER ENDULGANCE OFTEN MEANS SOMETHINGS WRONG SOME BELEIVE THAT IN LOVE ONE'S EXISTANCE IS PREDETERMINED IS THIS TRUE OR DO WE WORK TO ACHEIVE THE SUPPORT OF CERTAIN TOGETHERNESS'S IN SOME RELATIONSHIPS MARRAGE IS THE ALTERMITE GOAL AND ACHEIVING A LONG STANDING COMMITMENT IS THE OBJECTIVE PEOPLE WISH TO BE HAPPY, AND OFTEN LOOK TO THEIR MATE TO ACHEIVE SUCH HAPPINESS. PRODUCTIVE LOVE, MEANS HAVING GOALS AND OBJECTIVES THAT ARE WORK TOWARD IN THE SPIRTNESS OF TOGETHERNESS.