Love Poem: The Greatest Shame
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Written by: Iger Rolyat

The Greatest Shame

Had I never known the heat of sensual fire 
From a woman consumed with sexual need
Whose object of desire in the darkest hours 
For pleasure and gratification - was me 
I would never quite realize how empty and cold 
Are your reasons for a passionless life
That kindness, compassion and trust - alone  
Are insufficient qualities for a wife
Fear of having to reciprocate 
Unwanted proclivities in exchange
Could never extinguish the primal lust 
Of a woman’s pheromones enraged
There were wanton impatient lovers
Who’ve met me at the door
Overwhelmed with awaiting my presence
Made love to me right there on the floor
Their motives were often deep inner need
But just as often the simple desire to please 
A woman’s innate need for lovin’ 
Could never be stifled or contained
Nature’s demand for intimate mating 
Would overrule any reason to abstain
But you leave me caressing my pillow
Clueless and careless that sex has refrained
Days on end with no kissin’ or huggin’
Endless months without releasing the strain
Only a damaged psyche
In deep emotional pain
Or inherited cold-blood 
Coursing through chilly veins… 
Could explain.
Claims of excessive carnal demands
While seldom if never met
Are the excuse for withholding affection
But don’t explain the willful neglect
To give and share lovin’
Til the end of our days
With the spouse you had beget
Whatever sexuality issues 
Is not alone your lover’s blame 
You mislead yourself most of all
To believe our deceased romance
Attaches no fault to your name 
Once-in-a-life-love sacrificed
After all, the greatest shame.

Iger